Q. What’s it like the very first time you watch her take another man’s cock?
A. Even though you’re a cuckold, your still human, so no matter how much you think you’re ready to watch her get fucked silly by another man, take some steps to prepare.
1. When she’s picked another man to screw, go out with them first to a bar with the simple goal of just getting acquainted and being comfortable with this new dynamic. You should also test to see how you react when he fondles her and dances with her.
2. Don’t be there the first time they fuck! If your girlfriend / wife and her lover have never had sex with each other before, let them get that out of the way in private before you jump in. Sex with a new partner can be awkward enough and even more so with a ‘third wheel’. This is also a great opportunity to see how you react knowing that she is out with another man.
3. When you’re finally ready to watch them, prepare yourself to be overwhelmed with a range of conflicting emotions. DON’T try to jerk off the first time. In fact, the three of you should reach an understanding BEFORE sex so that everyone knows each other’s boundaries.
Often, she will appear to be enjoying the sex with him more than she ever has with you and that can create an intense feeling of jealousy. Take a break and leave the room if you have to, BUT never interrupt them or ask them to stop.